Forcing attraction for self-preservation?
So for the month of July, I was in a new place meeting girls everywhere. I was getting numbers, going out with them in groups, and talking to them all the time. The problem is, I was only really attracted to one. I devoted so much of that time on trying to get her to hang out with me more. She showed signs of interest, but when I asked her to a concert for the last time (last day of the program), she told me probably not, even though she told me earlier she didn’t have plans. I talked to a mutual female friend later on and I asked her what happened. She said she had a boyfriend, but she never told me.
So, my question is, if I keep going at this pace, when will I ever find someone? Will I ever find someone? I’m 22 and I’ve never been in a relationship. I’ve actually never had a romantic kiss. Still, I project confidence because I’ve found it in other areas of my life. I’ve tried internet dating, but I enjoy meeting women in person. Sending a message and waiting to see if I get one back is not fun. So what should I do? Should I open up my standards forcefully? Should I be with a woman I’m not attracted to, at least for the experience?
I’m not acting desperate. I come off as a confident guy who likes to have fun. I asked out the girl because it was the last night of the program and otherwise I probably wouldn’t see her again. The last time that I met a girl that I was actually interested in was over a year ago, hence the reason for my question. I wonder, at this pace of being attracted to so few women (many of whom have boyfriends or are otherwise unavailable), when will things finally work out?
When you find the right girl things will work out. Maybe you should go on a couple dates with these other girls to get experience.
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