How to read these signs?
I am bi and not out. I have a crush on a female friend of mine who I’ve known for 10 mths now. We have become good friends and she is very affectionate verbally and physically. There have been possible signs that she likes me too……..talking late at night into wee hrs of the morn on the phone with me, light flirting….. But I haven’t been sure because she has a lot of friends and is warm and friendly with everyone.
Anyway, we met up today briefly because she had to give me a package related to something else. As we greeted each other, we hugged each other tightly and swayed whilst hugging for some mins. We haven’t seen each other in person for about 2 wks. Whilst she was hugging me, she made the sound that people make when having great tasting food "Mmmmmm.." and she sounded very pleased and relaxed.
But sometime afterward there was a brief moment when there was no talking. And she very slowly gazed from my eyes down to my chest and the rest of my body. I wasn’t sure what to make of this….I am not sure if she was ogling me or if she thought my clothes and shoes looked odd or something. She didn’t look turned off or anything. She seemed to look a bit mischievous whilst looking at me. But she was definitely observing me and not really in the way women examine each other’s fashion to gossip with others. She has seen me in jeans and a top countless times.
What do you think? Are these signs of attraction?
Please be nice.
jus talk to her….hopefully u’ll get lucky lol
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If you’re very good friends it sounds like it’s time for you to ask her if the two of you can speak confidentially. If she says okay, then you should tell her you feel as though the two of you have become very close friends and that you have started to be attracted to her. Tell her that if she isn’t interested you will respect her decision but you would like to remain friends. If she has similar feelings for you she will most likely tell you so. If not…and she wants to stop the friendship…you’ve, actually, lost nothing as she wasn’t your friend in the first place…References :
jus talk to her….hopefully u’ll get lucky lolReferences :