Should I wait for her to make casual touches?
I have a good relationship/friendship with this girl at work for 2 months that I am attracted to but there has been little if any casual touching between us. She shows many of the usual signs of attraction, such as long eye contact, preening, nervousness, teasing, nicknames, blushing, fidgeting and stroking her wrists and hair. Should i up the ante by making a move to touch her shoulder or arm more more often when we are talking or should I be more of a gentleman and wait for her to make the first move if she is really interested. I’m particularly nterested in a females point of view.
I should add that we spend most of our dinner hours together and have a pub lunch weekly but as a part of a group of other friends.
Make the first move. A lot of girls don’t like to make the first move. They want the guy to so they know that they like them. Besides if she had wanted to make the first move she would have already done it.
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try a bolder move, but nothing offensive. Shoulder is good. Judging on her reaction, you will know whether you need to cool it off, or take things further…References :
Hmmm since it sounds like you two are friends already, how about just asking her to go for a coffee break sometime? Or maybe a casual lunch when it’s not busy at work? good luckReferences :
One word, harrasment, if someone sees you touching her, they might file a law suit. be careful. I understand what you are saying, if you "wait for her" she will never do anything because most women prefer the guy to make the first move. Maybe one day while she is typing at her computer just come behind her and pick her hands off and do something playfully. If you feel she is comfortable with you, then you have a better playing field, if she quickly jerks away or pulls out of your hands, it might become strange to be around her.References :
She may be a little cautious of making the first move, especially if you both currently share a professinal relationship. Most women like men will doubt a guy is into them until it is blinding obvious. So even if you do add in the occasional touching although she may notice she will probably think that she is reading to much into it. Best thing is to try and develop a friendship/ relationship with her outside of the workplace. People are completly different outside of work, and it will allow you guys to find out more about each other.
Try to work out some common interests between you do and invite her somewhere (besides most women I know LOVE it when a guys makes the first move).
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Make the first move. A lot of girls don’t like to make the first move. They want the guy to so they know that they like them. Besides if she had wanted to make the first move she would have already done it.References :
Sure she’s probably despirate for you to!
Btw do we stroke our wrists when we like someone?References :
Make the move, do it first. Odds are she’s nervous.References :
I would be unable to do it first. I would really want him to do it first. Since both are thinking the same, nothing happens.
I dropped my pencap by accident. I am sure he thought it was not an accident. He picked it up and studied it for a while and handed it over. Our fingertips didn’t even touch. Darn.References :