Confidence: The Key To Success And Women
There are so many books, conventions, and special newsletters out there on how to attract women, land the woman of your dreams, and so forth and so on and they all reduce down to one main observation: Confidence.
All else being equal, it’s the assured guy that will win every time all else being equal. That suggests you need to groom and dress properly and take care of all the other basics from private hygiene to making a respectable livelihood. The basics will get your foot in the door give you a chance but they are by no means what will seal the deal. That’s the reason why they’re called basics…
But naturally, life isn’t fair it isn’t equal. Folk are not equal. Everybody has different strengths and weaknesses. And confidence goes a great distance towards leveling out your weaknesses while highlighting your strengths.
Naturally, confidence itself is a strength. So how it’s possible to get it if you do not have it already?
By practicing. There’s really no other way. You must unlearn what you’ve learned about yourself, and about your strengths and weaknesses.
No one is born confident. ( If they are they are just born fortunate. ) But everybody learns some measure of confidence, eventually. You needn’t join the army or Navy or have magical one-off experiences ; you just need to practice thru selective confidence-building measures that prime your cerebral cortex for success.
Quicker said than done, of course but the harder it is to do, the more effective it’s going to be once done. Believe that.
And, lest it be mistaken, let it be noted now that confidence is not the same as arrogance, which is often used to disguise fear, insecurity, and doubt. And there is no quicker turn-off than arrogance with most women. So learn confidence to avoid arrogance and you can write your own how-to book in the shape of your very life, a life well lived!
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