Category: Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
So you would enjoy learn to trust again after being scarred from a painful break-up. Getting support from friends and family can sometimes be the worst place to turn if you desire to heal your heart and love again.
If you are having relationship advice dilemmas due to a lover in your past had been unfaithful, it is possible to love again. A large tearing of trust can be very troublesome and have a lot of staying power. Just the same, you do need to look for a positive outlook and a healthy state of mind before you can move on. I suggest that you be less judgmental of yourself and easy on yourself and keep looking for the place of forgiveness and release. You want to create a relationship with someone you can trust and open your heart with utterly, so you need to clear out any lingering negative vibrations.
Sometimes it’s the same tale we tell ourselves and others that has us making reasons to go on perpetuating the lifestyle we may live, or making excuses for our negative disposition.
Think about the “truths” you hold about yourself. I hope you’re examining the heavy impressions that were drilled into you at an early age; the stories (that live like reality) concerning you and why you have not been successful, why you don’t deserve, why you’re not good enough in the area of relationships or just life in general.
I’d suggest you come up with a statement that sums up that dark section or irrational belief. I call it an irrational belief because you have some how gone through life taking care of yourselves incredibly successfully in a number of areas. You are experienced in many areas, you excel in a few fields and you’re certainly brilliant in others. You have high expectations and skills which, on the echelon of the intelligence, prove to yourself that you ARE good enough – in some cases absolutely stunning.
What was that early belief, call it your ‘life statement’ that sums up a deeply held understanding that has little to do with your rationality or intelligence. Attract a new life statement like an affirmation that supports and empowers you. You can recieve free Relationship Advice for Women After Divorce.
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