Category: Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I really wish to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you have had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s quicker and simpler than you’d think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Getting guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Consider emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You are allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. What’s more, that slow energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiving can be a complicated one. First off, I am not talking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of hurt, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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