Is this flirting or friendly body language?

Feb 10

Is this flirting or friendly body language?

A guy I work with used to point at me with his hands or fingers or feet (once holding onto my partition at work with his thumb thrust out at me while talking to someone else at the next desk) this slowly stopped but now if he’s sitting by me I notice he is leaning towards me. I was standing by him the other day while he was sitting down and he started leaning so far towards me that his head wasn’t far from my chest and his elbow was actually touching my hand. Then he pulled back and didn’t refer to it again. Is he just comfortable with me or is there an underlying motive?
I am in love with him but I don’t know if this is his way of telling me he loves me or is just comfortable with me or what really.

I just want to know if you think this behaviour means he feels the same way or am I deluding myself?

Flirting!!!!!!!! Since he hasn’t made any verbal advances toward you..I think he may be trying to entice you to come after him.

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Posted on Wednesday, February 17th, 2010 at 6:32 pm and is filed under Flirting Body Language. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.

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1 peebee on February 18, 2010
why are you concerned? if you like him, show it. if you don’t, tell him you are not comfortable with all those things.
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2 Eugenio C on February 18, 2010
if your into him start talking to him but if your not just tell him to stop, but if you like playing games just let him do what he is doing.
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3 Shelby!! on February 18, 2010
If you like him do these things back. He’s waiting for you to make a move. He obviously feels something for you.If you don’t like it and want it to stop ignore him and back off purposely when he gets close.

good luck!
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4 Ted H on February 18, 2010
Where is he from, mars? Maybe he likes females. I’ll bet if you said, "man I could sure go for a drink" he would agree. Then when he’s drunk ask him if he likes you.
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5 Katie K on February 18, 2010
I read in a body language book that when people are pointing to someone or something with their hands or feet, it shows what or who they are paying attention or where they want to be. For example, if you were on a really bad date, your feet might be pointing at the door as if you couldn’t wait to leave. I think this can be both friendly or flirty.
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I forgot the name of the book…
6 angry compassion on February 18, 2010
Flirting!!!!!!!! Since he hasn’t made any verbal advances toward you..I think he may be trying to entice you to come after him.
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Men don’t try that very often..the fact that he is means that he feels very comfortable with you (well beyond the office).

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