Body language girls please?
i finally summed the courage to ask the girl that i liked to my bowling party it was a big hit and what i want to know is what does she feel
through the bowling she kicked most of our butts and when i went up to bowl she gave me a light tap on the back like you can do it. was this just a confidence boost or a purposeful touch?
also when we sat down we talked alot and she faced me and had her legs crossed in a way that showed her thighs. now i have researched body language in the past an i know this is a sign but was she meaning something then because sometimes its misinterpreted
after we came back we sung singstar ABBA and me and the girl vs two of my friends in duets and even though she was holding the mic she was right up close to me so close i didnt know where to put my hands (i settled for an uncumfortable one behind my back and one emphasising my singing)
she also was in a brand new really nice dress (she said she bought it for the movies which she went to beforehand witha friend (girl) to see twilight umm new dress movies i dont think so i could be wrong though)
she was also wearing really nice hoop earings that her friend made her wear to the movies instead of make-up because she doesnt like makup all that much but as we were singing together i noticed she had a tiny bit of eyeshadow and something else like a dust
now i now genius but she wore makeup anyway is this because she started putting it on and then stopped or what
also were both 14 and in year 9 next year
so any help would be appreciated thanks
Being 14, you’re very observant! And cautious! Kudos to you, some guys don’t pick those things up till their 30′s or older!
She is obviously comfortable with you being in her personal space, this says she trusts you. Of course I didn’t see the ABBA performance, but my guess is, she was probably hoping for you to put your arm around her, if she was that close.
Everyone is different but, it’s not that common to wear a dress to the movies, so my guess is she was dressed to impress. As for the makeup, if she doesn’t usually wear it, she wants to impress.
I, and a lot of other women, wear makeup more often when I want to feel more confident. My guess is she was trying to capture someones attention ( probably yours ) but felt a little anxiety as well.
Keep up with the friendly and safe approach for a little while. She’ll feel more at ease and open up a little more. She’s comfortable with you in her personal space so use this wisely. Try to touch her on her lower back, or arms when you can get away with doing it smoothly. This is the next step to getting a little closer. If she does ever pull away, it means you’re not invited that close, don’t try it again for a while. If she doesn’t pull away after doing that for a while, you’re safe to make a move.
Good luck!
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Being 14, you’re very observant! And cautious! Kudos to you, some guys don’t pick those things up till their 30′s or older!
She is obviously comfortable with you being in her personal space, this says she trusts you. Of course I didn’t see the ABBA performance, but my guess is, she was probably hoping for you to put your arm around her, if she was that close.
Everyone is different but, it’s not that common to wear a dress to the movies, so my guess is she was dressed to impress. As for the makeup, if she doesn’t usually wear it, she wants to impress.
I, and a lot of other women, wear makeup more often when I want to feel more confident. My guess is she was trying to capture someones attention ( probably yours ) but felt a little anxiety as well.
Keep up with the friendly and safe approach for a little while. She’ll feel more at ease and open up a little more. She’s comfortable with you in her personal space so use this wisely. Try to touch her on her lower back, or arms when you can get away with doing it smoothly. This is the next step to getting a little closer. If she does ever pull away, it means you’re not invited that close, don’t try it again for a while. If she doesn’t pull away after doing that for a while, you’re safe to make a move.
Good luck!References : You seem to be very aware of body language however, if you would like to do more research, I found "The Power of Body Language" by Tonya Reiman very interesting and useful.