Girls- body language?
I keep hearing that girls can read a man’s/boy’s body language well and tell if they are confident, and have a belief in them self, or not.
And apparently you find it attractive if they do appear comfortable in themselves, confident and cocky!
Is this true?
If so, what do you look for, how can I hold myself in this way? Any small details?
It is true that some girls are very adept at reading body language, but not true that all girls are turned on by "cocky" guys. Confidence is definitely a turn on, because nobody wants to be constantly reassuring their partner of their worth. I think in order to APPEAR confident you actually have to BE confident. Just keep reminding yourself of all your wonderful qualities, take good care of yourself, and try not to worry too much about your minor flaws. Your belief in yourself will shine through in your carriage and overall demeanor.
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Well since more than half the people on this section of questions are girls I doubt that ALL girls can do this. Some can, most can’t. They’re just trying to put you in an insecure moment – keep them guessing
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I guess we can read body language. It’s actually kind of easy…References :
When they expose their breasts, and wrap them around your face, then you know the game is "ON".
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I liek when i guy is confident…not cocky there is a difference cocky guys just expect everything and think they are the sh*t and xpect u to think the same.
I have found that cocky guys normally cheat ont heir gf’s too and tht their relationships don’t last too long…References :
Basically girls are stupid because they think that boys who are cocky are intriguing
You can’t just fake being confident, it should come naturally.
Stop trying to play games and be yourself, listening to people who tell you how to mask your behaviour is stupid because they are telling you to pretend to be someone different.
BE YOURSELF.
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be clean well dressed iron your clothesReferences :
i personally like when i guys confident.
but NOT cocky.
when a guys too into himself its a big turn off
yeah guys are sometimes pretty easy to "read"ahah :pReferences :
i like confident guys…..but i HATE cocky guys!!….there is a fone line between confidence and cockyness…..i can usually read guys body language….but remember u cant always judge a book by its cover…
just dress well and look ppl in the eyes……..idk exactly…lolReferences :
It really depends on the girl.
As far as holding yourself this way little things can make a difference. Try standing up straight and smiling. It’ll help.References :
It is true that some girls are very adept at reading body language, but not true that all girls are turned on by "cocky" guys. Confidence is definitely a turn on, because nobody wants to be constantly reassuring their partner of their worth. I think in order to APPEAR confident you actually have to BE confident. Just keep reminding yourself of all your wonderful qualities, take good care of yourself, and try not to worry too much about your minor flaws. Your belief in yourself will shine through in your carriage and overall demeanor.References :
Confidence is a turn on, who wants to be hanging out with a hopeless guy/girl. Cocky is a turn off, and ___________ nothing.References :
Some girls can read body language not all girls. And girls don’t find cocky boys attractive. Just be yourself and it will always turn out fine!References :
if a guy is slouchy or quiet,it means that he isnt very confident with himself,
But if you sit up straight and have alot of ‘girlfriends’ then that shows that you r confident around girls and are able to talk to themReferences :
well, you can start by simply standing up straighter and your shoulders back….with good posture you can look more confident and seem like you’re in charge, girls like that in guys….and try not to ever cross arms in front of you, no matter how you might have meant it or not meant it, it always comes off as how you’re not interested and bored.References :
comfortable- yes!
cocky/conceited/vain- no…..who would want to spent a night with someone who thinks of himself as a god? but thinking that ur horrible looking isnt good either.
how to NOT get cocky- think to urself "i have this great girl, so i must be pretty handsome, but there are tons of people out there who may be more good-looking than me"References :
Uh,there has got to be a certain amount of cockyness, you can’t just be up there saying "i’m to sexy for my…" ok that’s alittle to over confident, which may or may not seem corny, but in my book that’s a zero. Now on the other hand I like a guy that can approach me first, I find it hot, so if you have the confidence to do that, then your just fine, most importantly be respectful.References :
you should just be yourself, girls like guys that r themselves. at least i do. we don’t like it when guys lie.References :
well when a guy is well groomed(you know clean clothes,smells pretty good)then he shows that he takes pride in his apperance which is good.and posture(like not slouching too much)is nice.also a laid back kinda attitude is really a turn on.hope this helped a little.:)References : uh my brain…
I love confident and cocky. But when I say confident I don’t mean showing off like a twat. It’s good to be quietly confident, making the first moves, actively flirting, teasing you about how he’s amazing etc.
You should try and emphasise the points that you’re proud of. For example, my boyfriend is a snowboard instructor and he’s always like ‘well I am a snowboard instructor..’ implying that he’s just simply cool because of that. He’s an awesome chef. He talks about how he ‘made a banging meal last night’.. and goes on to brag and describe it to me.
Don’t seem too interested in a girl, but not so uninterested that you seem nervous. ‘Play it cool.’ Don’t always be the first one to text etc.
Main point is to only be cocky if you have something to be cocky about. Don’t lie and don’t exaggerate. Just be cocky about what’s true and what you can afford to be cocky about.References :
no i hate cocky guys.
and pretty much guys who have WAY too much confidence and think every girl wants them.
but it is nice to see guys that feel comfortable around girls…
bc if theyre toooooo shy thats a turn-off
but i am shy too so i give em a break sometimes.
you just cant be tooo over-confident but still be calm.
i love shy guys though, if they arent too shy
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Sure, a major part of communication goes through body language (much more than words).
I suppose what comes across is how you feel inside. So, just turn your mind to how confident you feel and that will show. Look around you, see who you think comes across to you as confident looking and try to step in their shoes, if that helps.
Confident does not mean "overconfident" but just at ease.References :