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Jan 10

Subtle Signs of flirting and attraction?

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what are some some subtle signs i can use to attract or get the message that i like the guy across?? please help i dont want to be direct but want to get him thinking about it or at least the message across. Thankyou!

- Acts more mature or immature when you’re around
- Allows you into their "personal space"
- Always backs you up – supportive
- Apologizes a lot
- Asks his/her and your friends about you
- Asks who you like
- Behaviour generally changes (gets louder or goes quiet when you’re around)
- Blinks more than usual in conversation with you
- Blushes and/or sweats around you
- Calls/texts for random reasons (homework, see what you’re up to etc.)
- Compliments you (tells you you smell nice, look nice etc.)
- Copies you – you do something one day, he/she’s doing it the next
- Doesn’t talk/ask you for things, but will talk/ask everyone around you (shy)
- Eyebrows raise when he/she sees you (even for a quick second)
- Eyes get "soft" when looking at you (become "intimate")
- Eyes travel in a circle around your face when talking to you
- Facial expression changes when he/she sees you/you’re around
- Feet and/or upper body point in your direction
- Finds reasons to talk to you (sometimes lame reasons)
- Frequently touches his/her face
- Friends aren’t really a top priority
- Friends know you, but you don’t know them
- Friends pay attention to you
- Friends start talking to you and asking you questions (about him/her usually)
- Gazes into your eyes with deep interest
- Gives you a nickname
- Gives you his/her undivided attention
- Hangs around you a lot
- Holds his thumbs in his belt loops (cowboy stance)
- If you flirt with them, they flirt back
- If you are in a bad mood, he/she will try to make you feel better
- Initiates dates
- Is there for you when you’re down
- Jokes around with you
- Laughs at your jokes/unfunny things you say
- Licks his/her lips (wants to kiss you)
- Listens to you and remembers what you say
- Looks at you when he/she’s talking to other people
- Makes future plans with you (movies on Friday, etc.)
- May act weird around you / seem nervous
- May avoid you out of nervousness
- May get the "feeling" they’re watching you, but can never catch them
- May poke you, play with your hair, etc.
- May seem jealous when you look at/talk about other guys/girls
- May stare with “puppy dog” eyes
- Mirrors (copies) you
- Mood changes with yours (happy when you are, sad when you are etc.)
- Mouth opens a little when he/she sees you/talks to you
- Nice to your friends (maybe extra nice)
- Plays footsie
- Plays with his/her hair
- Preens (straightens tie, runs fingers through hair etc.)
- Pupils dilate
- Reacts positively to flirting
- Remembers your name/talking to you/your conversations etc.
- Remembers little quirks about you that others would easily forget
- Respects you
- Says dumb things just to keep you talking
- Says, "hi," to you a lot
- Seems happy when you’re around
- Seems sad when you ignore him/her
- Sits/stands in the "open" position (facing you and arms/legs uncrossed)
- Sits next to you whenever/wherever he can
- Sits up straight and muscles appear firm
- Smiles back at you (esp. wide)
- Smiles more when you’re around
- Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual
- Stutters/mumbles when he/she speaks to you
- Talks to your friends
- Talks/asks for things often (outgoing)
- Teases you a lot (calls you names, etc.)
- Touches you (rubs up against you and the like) "accidentally"
- Tries to hold your hand/touch you "accidentally"
- Tries to impress you (perhaps with material things – cell phone, car, etc.)
- Tries to make you laugh
- Voice changes when he talks to you (gets softer)
- Walks by a lot (if he/she can)
- Watches your lips (dead giveaway)
- Will act foolish (to get your attention)
- Will do small favours for you
- Will focus on you in a group
- Will hang on your every word (seems to)
- Will help you whenever he can
- Will sometimes choose you over his/her friends
- Will try and hug you whenever he/she can (when you’re mad, sad, etc.)
- Will try to make you laugh (even if it involves him/her getting hurt)
- Will stare until you catch him/her (shy)
- Winks at you
- You bump into him/her a lot of places


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  1. 1 Markk C on January 30, 2010

    smile alot mimic him a little bit
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  2. 2 Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions on January 30, 2010

    guys don’t do subtle… use a 12′ neon sign and a ton of bricks to attract him!!!
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  3. 3 mr_katzenjammer on January 30, 2010

    General signs girls give off when they like a guy are they;

    -Give small glances, and when he looks at them, they look away or look at the ground while smiling.
    -Playing with their hair when talkng to him.
    -Blushing
    -Smiling, laughing or giggling more frequntely even at unfunny jokes.
    -When in a group they focus all their attention on the guy they like, only talking to him
    -Touching a guy on his arm or shoulder when talking to him
    -Giving him a subtle compliment

    good luck
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  4. 4 ♥sincerelywithlove♥ on January 30, 2010

    - Acts more mature or immature when you’re around
    - Allows you into their "personal space"
    - Always backs you up – supportive
    - Apologizes a lot
    - Asks his/her and your friends about you
    - Asks who you like
    - Behaviour generally changes (gets louder or goes quiet when you’re around)
    - Blinks more than usual in conversation with you
    - Blushes and/or sweats around you
    - Calls/texts for random reasons (homework, see what you’re up to etc.)
    - Compliments you (tells you you smell nice, look nice etc.)
    - Copies you – you do something one day, he/she’s doing it the next
    - Doesn’t talk/ask you for things, but will talk/ask everyone around you (shy)
    - Eyebrows raise when he/she sees you (even for a quick second)
    - Eyes get "soft" when looking at you (become "intimate")
    - Eyes travel in a circle around your face when talking to you
    - Facial expression changes when he/she sees you/you’re around
    - Feet and/or upper body point in your direction
    - Finds reasons to talk to you (sometimes lame reasons)
    - Frequently touches his/her face
    - Friends aren’t really a top priority
    - Friends know you, but you don’t know them
    - Friends pay attention to you
    - Friends start talking to you and asking you questions (about him/her usually)
    - Gazes into your eyes with deep interest
    - Gives you a nickname
    - Gives you his/her undivided attention
    - Hangs around you a lot
    - Holds his thumbs in his belt loops (cowboy stance)
    - If you flirt with them, they flirt back
    - If you are in a bad mood, he/she will try to make you feel better
    - Initiates dates
    - Is there for you when you’re down
    - Jokes around with you
    - Laughs at your jokes/unfunny things you say
    - Licks his/her lips (wants to kiss you)
    - Listens to you and remembers what you say
    - Looks at you when he/she’s talking to other people
    - Makes future plans with you (movies on Friday, etc.)
    - May act weird around you / seem nervous
    - May avoid you out of nervousness
    - May get the "feeling" they’re watching you, but can never catch them
    - May poke you, play with your hair, etc.
    - May seem jealous when you look at/talk about other guys/girls
    - May stare with “puppy dog” eyes
    - Mirrors (copies) you
    - Mood changes with yours (happy when you are, sad when you are etc.)
    - Mouth opens a little when he/she sees you/talks to you
    - Nice to your friends (maybe extra nice)
    - Plays footsie
    - Plays with his/her hair
    - Preens (straightens tie, runs fingers through hair etc.)
    - Pupils dilate
    - Reacts positively to flirting
    - Remembers your name/talking to you/your conversations etc.
    - Remembers little quirks about you that others would easily forget
    - Respects you
    - Says dumb things just to keep you talking
    - Says, "hi," to you a lot
    - Seems happy when you’re around
    - Seems sad when you ignore him/her
    - Sits/stands in the "open" position (facing you and arms/legs uncrossed)
    - Sits next to you whenever/wherever he can
    - Sits up straight and muscles appear firm
    - Smiles back at you (esp. wide)
    - Smiles more when you’re around
    - Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual
    - Stutters/mumbles when he/she speaks to you
    - Talks to your friends
    - Talks/asks for things often (outgoing)
    - Teases you a lot (calls you names, etc.)
    - Touches you (rubs up against you and the like) "accidentally"
    - Tries to hold your hand/touch you "accidentally"
    - Tries to impress you (perhaps with material things – cell phone, car, etc.)
    - Tries to make you laugh
    - Voice changes when he talks to you (gets softer)
    - Walks by a lot (if he/she can)
    - Watches your lips (dead giveaway)
    - Will act foolish (to get your attention)
    - Will do small favours for you
    - Will focus on you in a group
    - Will hang on your every word (seems to)
    - Will help you whenever he can
    - Will sometimes choose you over his/her friends
    - Will try and hug you whenever he/she can (when you’re mad, sad, etc.)
    - Will try to make you laugh (even if it involves him/her getting hurt)
    - Will stare until you catch him/her (shy)
    - Winks at you
    - You bump into him/her a lot of places
    References :

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