Create True Love on Valentine’s Day
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
Valentine’s Day brings out the lovey dovey side in many of us. At the very least, it’s a day that we would LIKE to have the romantic drawn out of its shell. Whether you are in a relationship or not, when you think about Valentine’s Day do you not remember those absurd little cupid cards we sent around to fellow children in school or the cards we created in class for our Moms?
Several memories and reminders we have about Valentine’s Day and what it means to be a part of a relationship or not can make us experience positive or negative emotions, depending on past relationships. Unfortunately, the majority of how we feel, regardless of what the status of our relationship is is placed in our minds by the conditioned thinking that is ‘out there’ in the mass consciousness.
Don’t pay attention to what they are saying. Don’t listen if it doesn’t uplift and empower you. You’re excellent just the way you are.
If you want a relationship and you aren’t in one, wonderful! You have the opportunity to get clear on exactly what you want. Now you are in a perfect area to begin to attract a relationship from a new initial point.
If you’re in a relationship and are not too content with the way it’s going, fine. Now you can better gain clarity on what you DO desire in your perfect relationship, based on the differences you’re presently living with. Get a free Relationship Coaching session today, no strings attached!
Valentine’s Day, whether you’re in a relationship or not, can be a day where you celebrate the love that’s coming to you! However, you must be proactive about this. You are the person who gets the first say and has the creative control over what you want in your relationship. A Relationship Coach can help you get clear on what you want and help you achieve the relationship of a lifetime!
Here is where a lot of us fall down on the job. We’re waiting for the circumstances to change out there. We are waiting for him to take charge. We are hoping that if we drop enough hints, he will take one and swing into action. WRONG. Don’t do that. That’s letting yourself be at the effect, rather than the causal end of your life. You make the decisions. The only thing you have to do is make a gentle request, to your current beloved or to the Universe. Next, you’ll need to step out of the way. You need to let go of the how, the what, and the when of what you want. Attachment to the outcome is essentially resisting what you want. You cannot say “Come in” with a hand keeping the door closed and expect it to enter. Maybe that’s easier said than done. But that’s why life coaching exists for those of us who need to get clarity of why we’re failing to get what we want and then assist us in aligning with what we do so it can be delivered. If you want to get a head-start on attracting the love of your dreams, you can get great coaching from a Law of Attraction Coach. Get your free consultation today!
It basically boils down to three steps. Ask, Align, and Allow. Simple, right? Not always easy. Ask yourself “What could be available to me in a loving, aligned, co-creative relationship?” “What could be possible for me in my life if I had a mutual, loving relationship”? Dream Big! Now start to play in the vibration of how your life would appear and feel like if you were enjoying that currently. Use your imagination – remember what you did so naturally as a child?
I am continuously deeply moved when I think of all of the amazing miracles I have created by way of creating my amazing husband. A little over 4 years ago, I was one of those people who had more unhappy closings to relationships than I’d want to admit. Then, I took this Attraction stuff seriously. I did the play/work. I dropped my barriers to love, got aligned and rapidly attracted the love of my life.
This Valentine’s Day, this year, I hope you are as blessed as I am in your relationship. I know you deserved it. By the way, a relationship is an ongoing mutual effort, as is life. I wish you a happy life, true love and perfect creation.
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You Do Not Have to Re-Make the Wheel
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …
There are specific steps to manifesting your desire. You do not need to re-invent the wheel.
Think of the Universe as a giant intentional fulfillment processor. The Universe is designed to work with you, never against you. Due to the fact that it manifests your desires every time you begin to think then why am I receiving what I am receiving but not the romance of my life or the life of my dreams? My question to you is: what are your tightly bound beliefs about what’s capable of happening in your life? Do you feel totally capable of love and deserving? Do you think you’re worthy of wealth and vitality? Do you have doubts about your capability of maintaining success? A Relationship Coach can help you achieve your goals, get help today!
You should want to get clarity in what’s in your energy. Your words can sometimes dilute your deeper feelings and beliefs. When you get clear about what is blocking your path, what those resistant thoughts, counter intentions or habitual patterns of thinking are, then you have the ability to ask and be in harmony with your wants, then it will be created. Get Life Coaching Courses to speed up your results with the Law of Attraction.
All you need to do is ask. Voice your desire, that is, you need to ask excluding any resistant energy that get in the way to undo what it is you’re asking for. For example: I want a relationship with a guy who is sweet, funny, adorable, and intelligent. You feel how wonderful it will be to be loved by a person like that, then, if there is no other negative energy in your path, your sweety will soon be yours.
Jesus taught us: Ask as if you’ve already received and it shall be given.
Ask – Believe – Receive. The believing part is the vibrational alignment part, and that’s where most people need assistance tweaking their vibration. But with practice it definitely becomes simpler. And you don’t need to go it alone — Get some support from a Law of Attraction Life Coach.
You CAN Heal Pain from a Previous Relationship and Attract the Relationship of Your Dreams
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
You have ended a negative relationship that doesn’t work for you anymore. It was hard to end it, because it was not horrible, although your heart wished to be truly fulfilled in love. Now you have found yourself feeling lonely and have a hard time closing the door completely on that old relationship. Does this sound like yourself?
You start to question yourself, asking yourself if the situation was really as bad as you thought.
In order to let anything new into our lives, we need to release what’s taking its place. It ishard to keep a fresh start and create the one who completes your existence if you are emotionally holding the space of the past. You don’t have to necessarily completely abandon the friendship. However, if you see that you’re keeping many inhibiting emotions from the previous relationship, then it is time to clear that energy out. Completion is necessary. You can get the Relationship Advice you need today.
Completion is a action of acquiring full responsibility for your emotional level, expressing everything you feel about the situation (without putting blame on anyone) with the intention of saying all that must be said as though you are emptying a container. When you have expressed it all, that container is empty and cleared out.
It also assists you to understand what you desire from the expunging conversation. In other words, you desire to be complete, you desire to be independent from your previous life so you can create from a new place.
If you have found your mind clinging to hurt from the past, perhaps you think that he really should be held accountable for his actions. Best of luck attempting to break free from that. The more your mind is on something you do not want, the more you’ll attract it to you.
Let the vibration you are letting in to be siphoned off from your power. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Also, that eventual energy leak prevents you from letting all your power present in this moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment it makes it more difficult to be a powerful, deliberate creator. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you along the way.
Take all of your presence back by releasing and letting go of your previous relationship, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and inhibit you from accelerating the life and love you desire and should have.
What do I do if I want to get that which I desire, even if I’ve never been successful at manifesting in previous experiences?
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …
Well first off, I’d say that you certainly HAVE been manifesting for your entire life. Perhaps you have been getting that which you DON’T desire, but you have manifested. Remember that your thoughts create and will become events in your life experience. With the help of a Life Coach, you can speed up the process of manifesting your desires.
The real question becomes, “how do I start manifesting that which I want”? That is a great question. Because the Law of Attraction states that like harmonizes with like, you must first become vibrationally in sync with what it is you want. How do you become in tune, vibrationally? You come into alignment vibrationally with the thing you want by thinking and feeling as if it has already happened. Imagine what it’s like when you already have what you desire. How will your life look? How will it feel, what would your life be like, when you truly have what you want? A Law of Attraction Life Coach can help you Search for that special place of already having received what you desire. You will most likely have to practice that special area, this new vibrational point of attracting energy for a while before it becomes a steady vibration. Just do not undo your creative energy by thinking thoughts that negate your vibration, like “how long is this going to take”, “HOW is it going to show up”, or “if it’s going to work ever”, then in a moderately short time, you will create what you desire. The true key in the process is UNRESISTED intention. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you create the relationship you have always wanted.
“I want the career switch BUT it will spell working much more hours.”
“I desire to meet the man of my dreams BUT I need to lose 20 lbs first.”
Something that follows the BUT is a statement that nullifies the preceding phrase.
Tell your desires to the Universe and practice syncing vibrationally.
How To Sky-Rocket Your Self-Image and Create Love
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …
A typical problem for friends of mine is their belief that they have to drop 50 pounds or be financially secure prior to being able to create long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It is great to want to appear your best, feel your perfect self, have high self-esteem and be ok concerning your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel secure, confident, and beautiful.
There are a MASSIVE amount of corporations that prey on peoples’ low sense of self-image. At some point or another, we’ve all fallen prey to paying for that hot new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and own a beautiful body. Supplements, special diet foods or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these things are directly centered around one simple premise – that we are not actually OK the way we come.
We are so used to this type of thought pattern that we hardly even question it. It’s not surprising that we do this. After all, when we are born, at the beginning of our existence, we are admired and treated as perfection – at least most of the time. Then soon we are compared to how the previous sibling evolved, at what time they attained this knowledge, learning to sit, crawling, learning the language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she appears similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the pattern.
Begin by examining your early beliefs and emotions about your body. Most people don’t even understand that they have stuck energy or feelings from these previous experiences. Negative emotion, whether strong or mild, feels bad and many of us just learn to subjugate it, deal with it, or drive it farther into the underbelly of your mind. These influential emotional experiences usually stay buried. We’ve all used the phrase “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, paining, intense feelings continuing to be held somewhere inside of us. Those emotions transmit to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.
Begin to transform your relationship with your body by making a list of things you like about you. What truly harmonizes with your body? What can you love concerning your appearance? Think of 10 things every day that you really love about your body. Do you like your hands? Are you appreciative of functioning fingers? Make a list of the positive aspects about you and view your energy and vibrational point of attraction start to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.
How To Free Your Mind from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
“I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I really wish to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you have had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d begin the task of letting go. It’s quicker and simpler than you’d think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Getting guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Consider emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You are allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. What’s more, that slow energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiving can be a complicated one. First off, I am not talking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of hurt, you’ll either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
Relationship Advice for Working Single Moms
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
Susan from North Carolina contacted me because she is concerned that she’ll never again attract another husband because she thinks no one desires to walk into an already established family. If this rings true for you or someone you know, you may believe that, but in reality it is just not so. I know of friends who have toddlers, teenagers, and everything in between and they’ve still found a man who loves them as well as their children. He is out there. If you have the want, you have the capability to create this wonderful relationship into your life.
In my Magnetic Attraction program I speak concerning the importance of making a list. This is a list of attributes that you desire in your ideal mate. In the case of feeling insecure about attracting a mate who will totally love and accept your children, this this is a perfect item you should place on your list. “I desire someone who loves me and adores my children and they love him too”. Let’s say that’s the creation or desire. Now it’s your job to align with your want.
As a Law of Attraction Life Coach and relationship expert, you learn to clarify your affirmation by putting the low level of desire, belief or contradictory vibrations out of your emotional state.
Ideas like “nobody desires a ready made family” is an old program that was taught during the age you are the most receptive, adhering to mass consciousness and does not need to be part of your affirmation. It is not even real.
It is essential to understand that you have a subconscious functioning in the back of your mind. Your subconscious doesn’t permit you to have your desires fulfilled due to the previous doctrines that were predominant for you as you were a child.
It is just like a computer. If you have an outdated version of a word processing program running and someone emails you a document in a new format, you can’t open it on your old machine because the versions just do not match. You can fix this problem with free Love Advice for Women.
Clarifying your desire fully and consciously and moving into the place of understanding you can have it, that you deserve it, and feeling as if it’s already on the course to you. Get the Love Advice for Single Working Moms you deserve today. This mindset places you in the category of being meaningful and intentional about your thoughts and desires. Now you are in the attracting mode.
How to Cease Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
“I frequently tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling all the time.
When you keep creating unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to take in at the moment, but that is what I find to be the situation in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get extremely clear about what you desire. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your perfect match.
You make the list for yourself so you can attain clarity about what it is you really desire. You will start to see where any inconsistencies are in your vibration as you make the list. You’ll see where you should go to increase your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It’s time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it’ll be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for you, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you receive, it’s not kosher to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the alignment of your desires.
I have Tried Positive Realization, Why Isn’t it Working for me
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
If you have attempted repeating positive realizations, playing with vision boards and various other utilities to help get you in the attracting setting and they have not been effective, there could be several issues. Affirmations and Vision Boards are tools you can facilitate when you desire help getting into that feeling place of what it is like to have your wants manifested. If you are ineffectively facilitating the utilities and not truly seeing that feeling place, then you’re just doing a repetitive action and will not likely get much success. If you are finding that emotional area and still not getting results, then chances are you have got more resisting energy than you realize. That was how it was for me. I didn’t understand what was in the way. I had to get life coaching that made all of the difference.
As for affirmations, remember the Universe matches your energy, your aligned intentions, not the thoughts you speak. So you can think and jabber all day long, and if you are sending out envy when you view a person who has a content love relationship, you are projecting a feeling of lacking. And not a thing has to actually change around you in order for your beloved to show up. You don’t have to move to a larger house, or a better area, or a city that is filled with singles or couples however way you see it. The only thing you need to do is start where you are and stop the resistance.
Imagine a scale. You know, the the scales of justice. Picture it equally balanced with no weight on each end. Now picture that every time you place a positive intention over on the right side you put weight on the attraction side and each occurrence you have a doubting thought, you place a weight on the resisting end. Where do you imagine you really weigh in? The funny thing is, I thought I was a positive person. Oh boy, was I wrong. Not only did I have so much baggage about previous relationships, but I didn’t even realize it. On the way it is helpful to have a Law of Attraction Life Coach who is skilled and objective who can listen to what’s going on in your life and help you surface up your limitations.
The reality is, if you only practiced unparalleled appreciation and did not stop feeling good, you would be letting go of a lot of resistance regularly and any of your wants would manifest very darn fast. Use Spiritual Life Coaching for New Relationships Courses to your advantage. So continue appreciating all that’s working in your life!
How a Law of Attraction Coach can help you use the Law of Attraction to enhance your relationship
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
Do you ever question if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you actually know for sure? That is a question people ask me when a person’s relationship has many ups and downs. The problem could simply be you’re experiencing many mixed signals, or it takes a lot of hard work to have the relationshiop run well. Do not get me wrong, a relationship does take work, but they do not need to be hard work. Communication is fairly simple. You can feel free to say what is on your mind. When relationships get hairy, and they will, you need the courage and presence of mind to smoothe the situation over later on by taking responsibility for your actions or words.
A healthy relationship should not seem like difficult labor. Love and mutual respect are at the core of any relationship. Having said that, you should never underestimate the power of the Ego to mess things up. Not knowing where you’re at in your own level of maturity, it’s hard to say what’s going on in your life. In any relationship, you have the ability to remake what you have. That is right. You can remake your current relationship. Anyone dedicated to being in a lasting, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.
I am going to assist you in banishing all of the muddled signals you’ve been taught about your emotions. You’re going to attain the clearness of what your mind is trying to tell you; and best of all – you’ll never anymore be in the dark concerning whether you are CREATING a perfect love or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you desire to realize how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.
The better question is are YOU letting the Law of Attraction to work for what you REALLY want? In other words, the Law of Attraction is continuously mirroring back to you your primary emotion. What you want to be aware of is, what is my main vibration on the matter of attracting love? I answer these kinds of questions and lots more pertaining to new relationship advice for men in my Law of Attraction Life Coaching and training programs.
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