Secrets of Attraction » violent relationships http://www.attractionphilosophy.com Flirting Body Language Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:40:53 +0000 en hourly 1 Violent Relationships http://www.attractionphilosophy.com/flirting-body-language/violent-relationships http://www.attractionphilosophy.com/flirting-body-language/violent-relationships#comments Thu, 26 Nov 2009 05:32:24 +0000 admin http://www.attractionphilosophy.com/flirting-body-language/violent-relationships Violent relationships aren’t always easy to detect. When in a relationship, the couple may seem great together, yet what happens behind closed doors is another story. Whether the person you are having a relationship with will turn violent is not something that is easy to find out. There are a few indications and warning signs that you should always be aware of, and if you feel there is a possibility you may be getting into a violent relationship then talk to a trusted friend or family member and work on moving away from such a relationship.

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One of the most common signs of a possible violent relationship is if the partner is extremely possessive or jealous. This should not be wrongly taken for love. The most vital things in a relationship are trust and shared respect. Constantly calling and checking up on you, not wanting you having any close companions or trusting in anyone, going through your email or text messages and discouraging you from spending time with your family are all signs of caution of what could lead to a violent relationship.

Another sign of a violent relationship is if your partner keeps putting you down. Physical abuse is easy to spot but emotional abuse is much more complex and tends to leave a much deeper scar. If your partner always criticizes you or talks to you in a disparaging manner, makes humiliating jokes or keeps calling you unkind names there is big chance of your relationship turning violent so either get out of the relationship or try set back and put a stop to it.

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After a violent episode it is possible for the person feel remorse and to ask for forgiveness and promise that it will never take place again. Often the relationship gets more violent as time goes by however honest the person may seem in their apology. Therefore if your partner is violent once, chances are he/she will get violent again and it will get worse with time.

Your partner threatens to hurt you, or loved ones or destroy your belongings are all sure signs of a violent relationship. Scaring you or threatening you are signs that are very vital for you to take notice of and get out of the relationship before things worsens and it becomes more violent. Also if your partner tends to blame other people as triggers for his/her reactions violent outbursts or manhandles you in a way that scares you, then it is a clear sign of a violent relationship.

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If you can identify with any of these signs then it is important that you talk to a trusted family member, friend or even a counselor. Breaking away from a violent relationship will be easier if you get the help you need from all kinds of people and it will also lessen the chance of you going back to such a relationship.

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